If You Love Her, Don’t Destroy Her

Remember that in case you ignore her and forget her, you will probably break her down and change her forever. You can change her into a person that’s nothing like the girl you fell in love with.

She wants to let you know that your love, patience, understanding, and attitude is what is important. You should never even think of treating her like a broken doll. She is a woman with scars, and you need to accept her like that, but make sure not to make any more wounds.

Do not destroy her. Instead, try to become the man that’s able to embrace her rampant soul, her free spirit, and her wild heart.

You are the person that should help her realize that everything she has gone through in her life was for a reason. Everything bad that has ever happened to her was to teach her how to appreciate the good things in her life, like you.

Try to stimulate her being, her emotions and her thoughts. You will destroy every inch of her in case you only love her when you are feeling lonely, as she does seek your love in each moment, not just when your insecurities and fears strike.

In case you truly love her, then love her with all her insecurities and flaws. She’s actually as imperfect as you are. Also, she does hope to share that imperfection with you. She does want to be utterly herself and undress her soul in front of you.

She does want to be the same way with you that she’s in the mirror—free, wild, and crazy. In case you aren’t ready to accept her as she is, you’ll destroy her.

In case you love her, then build her up, since she’ll do the same for you. What effort you put in, she’ll put in double.

In case you take her to a well, then she will introduce you to the ocean. In case you show her the moon, then she will show you the whole galaxy. In case you truly love her and treat her right, then she will love you more.

Source: gottadotherightthing.com, positivethingsonly.com

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You can come up with a million reasons and excuses to justify his lack of enthusiasm to actually pursue you as a potential love interest – but at the end of the day, even valid reasons and excuses won’t matter to the guy who genuinely wants to be with you. You have to understand that if a man really wants to be with you, then nothing is going to stop him from doing so. “If a man is interested, no distance will stand in the way. But if he is not interested, you can live next door, and that’s too far for him to go.” The only person who would be able to hold him back from pursuing you would be you. He wouldn’t be letting any other reason or condition dictate how things are going to turn out between the two of you. Know that he isn’t shy about being with you. You’re not scaring him away. It’s just that he doesn’t like you enough to actually make an effort with you; to actually keep things interesting between you.

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